~appledia story~

"Tak tumbuh,tak melata.Kalau tak sungguh,orang tak kata.." Tu kata yang  orang(tataula orang mana?). Kalau pulak yang kata,senang ja.. "Kalau ko tak 'lalu',ko takkan rasa!".. Betul...tak? Macam kes kitaorang laki bini ni. Tak sedar.. Pejam celik,pejam celik  dah setahun setengah,we been living  in this long distance marriage -(L.D.M.) Kalo ikutkan dari jaman aku bertunang ngan en.lola pun memang dah duduk jejauh. Long distance relationship pun dah penah lalui. Dah jadik macam 'alah bisa,tegal biasa"..dah. But still...it can never get better. Nothing feels good about this LDM. EVER. PERIOD. Just pushing our ownselves. Trying hard to forget the loneliness. The distance. The boredom. The 'apart'. Seriously orang takkan ada yang paham,unless yang 'lalui' benda sama.T_T So,bila dah duduk jejauh macam kami ni.Communication adelah sangat CRUCIAL.Penting giler.SUMPAH.Regardlessla verbal ker,in writing ker,or in whatever formla..As long ...

Pagi2 tadi aku bukak email,ternampak benda ni dari page CloveTwo.com .Citer pasal relationship tips.Title article dia "Want to stay married? Four things to do every day" but pada aku..it doesnt just meant for ones yang dah kawin ja..Ada tips ni yang memang bole sesangat di apply onto relationship (untuk yang belom kahwin) itself.Renung2kanla.Sharing is caring...kan?   1. Talk frequently and honestly to each other You should talk about frustrations, sex, anger, disappointment, about your appreciation of each other, about the meaning of life, about everything. No topic should be off limits. Learn to listen and communicate instead of fighting. Fighting is childish, and you want a grown-up relationship. >>>>>>>Jangan kasik ada communication breakdown please?Sekarangkan dah banyak channel..FB,twitter,skypela,ym,gtalk,webcam segalalah!So tadak alasan takleh nak communicate k.No such thing as CANT.It either ko MALAS or u just DONT BOTHER to do so.NOT GOOD! ...

To tell ya frankly,being in a LDR(long distance relationship)is not easy.Never been easy at ALL pun.Kontrol jek lebeh.Hanya 'mereka2' yang melaluinya ja yang mungkin tau,yang mungkin paham.Mujurla aku ada  Danial.That's why bila kami dapat masa,bila en.lola balik,we will make used every single minutes,moment that we have doing things that kami semua suka and bole buat sesama.Kata Q time.One of our fave.activities toghether of course outinglorr.Sekali-sekala balik,en.lola suka gak bawa kami(kalo tak bawak,kami SENDIRIK suka gak mintak..muahaha)merayap ke Uptown Danau Kota yang tak berapa nak jauh dari rumah.Aku memang suka merayap ke sini.Bole cuci2 mata,tengok barang.Tak kesahla uptown manapun.Tapi kalo tanya my fave.one,Uptown Damansarala terbaeek.Cos kat situ ade "barang kesukaan" aku^_^.Tapi condition aku,kalo nak bawa danial mayap sama it must be towards the weekend cos aku tak suka danial tido lelambat.Weekend takpa,e...